When living with the pain of sexual abuse, figuring out how to seek justice can be overwhelming. Many assume pressing criminal charges is the only option, but that is not always true. For some survivors, filing a civil lawsuit becomes more practical or empowering.
A civil case gives you the chance to hold the abuser or even an institution accountable in a different way. Instead of focusing on punishment like in a criminal trial, civil lawsuits seek compensation for the harm you suffered. It is a legal path that puts you in control and allows you to share your story on your terms.
Your case, your voice
Choosing a civil case for many survivors feels like the only real shot at justice. Here are a few reasons you might consider it:
- You missed the deadline for criminal charges: Statutes of limitations often expire before you are ready to speak up. Civil cases may give you a longer timeline to act.
- You want financial support for what you have lost. Abuse can affect your ability to work, your mental health and more. A civil case can help cover those costs.
- The evidence is not enough for a criminal trial: Criminal cases need proof “beyond a reasonable doubt,” which is a high bar. Civil cases only need a “preponderance of evidence,” which is easier to meet.
- You want to name an institution or third party: Schools, churches or businesses that failed to protect you can be held responsible in civil court, even if the abuser is not convicted.
- You want privacy and control: Civil cases often give survivors more say in how things go, including the option to settle out of court. This level of control can make the process feel safer and more survivor-centered.
Taking legal action can be a big step. So, it is important to walk with people who can help you weigh your options and help you choose what feels right. With legal guidance, your voice can be heard.